The US and the UK share a common language, but there are plenty of cultural differences that can make Brits raise an eyebrow.
While the differences are often amusing, there are some American customs that just don’t sit right with Brits — no matter how much they’ve adapted. Whether it’s an overly enthusiastic tradition or a social norm that feels a bit too intense, here are some American customs we’d actually prefer to leave behind, thanks very much.
1. Over-the-top tipping
In the UK, tipping is expected in certain situations, but usually only around 10-15%. However, in the US, 20% is the norm, and some people go as far as 25%. Brits often find this a bit excessive, especially when it comes to fast food, where tipping is often optional back home. While it’s nice to show appreciation for good service, the pressure of tipping everywhere can feel like a lot.
2. Wearing shoes indoors
Americans often wear shoes indoors, even in their own homes. For Brits, though, removing shoes at the door is a habit that keeps the home clean and comfortable (though of course, not all of us follow it these days). In fact, the idea of tracking dirt through the house makes many Brits feel uncomfortable. So when they’re asked to keep their shoes on indoors, it can feel a bit strange.
3. The “Have a nice day!” mantra
While it’s friendly, the American habit of saying “Have a nice day!” to strangers can come off as overly enthusiastic, particularly when it’s said in an impersonal context, like when leaving a shop or passing someone on the street. In the UK, a quick “cheers” or a nod is often all that’s needed. The constant cheerfulness of “Have a nice day!” can feel a bit too forced to some Brits.
4. Huge portion sizes
In the US, food portions are famously large. Brits are used to more reasonable-sized meals, so when they see a plate piled high with food, it can feel wasteful. It’s also an adjustment when portions are so big that they could be enough for two meals! While some Brits love the extra food, others find it a bit overwhelming and unnecessary.
5. The obsession with small talk
Americans love to make small talk with anyone, whether it’s a neighbour, a cashier, or a random person at the gym. Brits, on the other hand, are more reserved and prefer to have conversations with people they know. The constant chitchat can sometimes feel a bit much for those who are used to a more understated approach.
6. Halloween madness
While Halloween is gaining popularity in the UK, it’s not quite the same spectacle it is in the US. The obsession with elaborate costumes, trick-or-treating, and massive parties might feel a bit over the top to Brits. The spooky season is definitely enjoyed, but the level of dedication to costumes and decorations can seem like a step too far.
7. The “American Dream” pressure
The idea that anyone can achieve success through hard work is a huge part of American culture. While it’s an inspiring belief, Brits often find it a bit intense. In the UK, there’s less emphasis on the idea of pulling yourself up by the bootstraps, and success is often seen as something that requires more balance and luck. The American pressure to “dream big” can sometimes feel unrealistic or exhausting.
8. Baby showers for everything
While baby showers are not unknown in the UK, Americans take them to another level with multiple events like gender reveals, baby showers, and even diaper parties. Brits find the over-the-top planning and gift-giving a bit much, especially when it’s for a child who isn’t even born yet! A simpler celebration is more their style.
9. Saying “sorry” for everything
In the US, people say “sorry” for all kinds of things, even when they’re not at fault. A Brit might say “sorry” as a polite way of acknowledging inconvenience, but the frequency with which Americans apologise can seem excessive. From bumping into someone to not being able to find something at the store, the need to apologise for minor things can leave a Brit feeling perplexed.
10. The obsession with “public displays of affection”
In the US, public displays of affection (PDA) are much more common than in the UK. While holding hands or a quick kiss is normal, seeing couples practically attached to each other in public can feel a bit overboard for Brits. PDA in the UK is often kept private, and some Brits might find the constant cuddling or kissing in public a bit awkward.
11. Calling people by titles like “sir” and “ma’am”
In the US, it’s common to refer to strangers as “sir” or “ma’am” as a sign of respect. However, Brits tend to find this overly formal and a bit stiff. In the UK, addressing someone by their first name or using “please” and “thank you” is often enough. The formality of “sir” and “ma’am” can feel distant, even if it’s meant to be polite.
12. Super-sized drinks
In the US, drinks are often served in gigantic cups, with free refills that seem endless. For Brits, a regular-sized drink is usually sufficient, and the idea of a “large” drink that’s more like a small bucket can feel unnecessary. Not to mention, the constant offering of refills can leave a Brit feeling pressured to drink more than they actually want.
13. The “I’ll pray for you” phrase
While Americans are often open about their faith, Brits can find the phrase “I’ll pray for you” to be a bit much, particularly if they don’t share the same religious beliefs. In the UK, spiritual matters are typically kept more private, and the overt expression of religious sentiment can sometimes feel like an intrusion.
