America and Britain may share a language, but there are still some pretty big cultural differences that separate us.
From the way people socialise to what they prioritise, there are certain things Americans tend to make a big deal out of that Brits just aren’t fussed about. Sure, many people still subscribe to the whole “stiff upper lip” approach to life and may be more bothered by things than they let on, but for the most part, we tend to roll with the punches when it comes to this stuff.
1. The weather
In the US, people often talk about the weather like it’s a major event, especially when it’s extreme. Brits, on the other hand, are used to a bit of rain and grey skies, so the weather rarely sparks a long conversation unless it’s really extreme—think snowstorms or heatwaves.
2. Personal space
Americans are very particular about their personal space. You’ll hear them say things like “give me some space” if someone stands too close. Brits, however, are a lot more relaxed about this. While we don’t like it when people get too close, we usually won’t make a big deal out of it and will just quietly move away instead. Who wants an awkward confrontation?
3. Small talk with strangers
In the US, people tend to make small talk with just about anyone—whether it’s at the grocery store or waiting for a bus. In the UK, this is less common, especially with strangers. Brits typically prefer to keep our conversations to people we know, or at least in a more formal context.
4. Tipping
In America, tipping is not only expected but often seen as essential, especially in service industries like restaurants and taxis. In the UK, tipping is less of a big deal, and while it’s appreciated, it’s not usually as high as the American standard, and often it’s just a gesture rather than an obligation.
5. Saying “I love you”
Americans are famous for expressing their emotions, and saying “I love you” is often seen as a regular part of relationships, even early on. Brits, however, are a bit more reserved when it comes to expressing affection verbally, with “I love you” typically reserved for long-term partners or very close friends. That’s how it should be, right?
6. Celebrating birthdays with big parties
In the US, birthdays are a major event, often with big celebrations, lots of guests, and over-the-top gifts. In Britain, while birthdays are celebrated, they tend to be more low-key affairs. A dinner with family or friends is often enough, and you certainly won’t find us throwing extravagant parties every year. It’s seen as a bit tacky, in fact.
7. College sports
In the US, college sports—especially American football—are huge, with massive followings, tailgate parties, and a strong sense of school spirit. In the UK, while some universities have sports teams, they aren’t nearly as big of a deal, and university sports don’t generate the same kind of excitement or national attention.
8. Political correctness
Americans are very conscious of political correctness, especially in public discourse. Conversations around race, gender, and identity are often handled very carefully to avoid offending anyone. Brits tend to be more relaxed about these things and may even take a more sardonic approach to sensitive topics, often using humour or sarcasm to address tough topics. We’re not necessarily better at fixing the issues, mind…
9. Halloween
In the US, Halloween is a massive occasion with elaborate costumes, house decorations, and parties. While Halloween is growing in popularity in the UK, it’s still not celebrated on the same scale. For Brits, it’s a fun event but not one that takes over the entire month of October like it does across the Atlantic, thank goodness.
10. Customer service
Americans are known for their extremely friendly customer service. Whether it’s a cashier asking how your day’s going or a waiter checking if you’re enjoying your meal, service in the US is often very personalised and enthusiastic. In the UK, customer service is typically more reserved and formal, with less small talk and a quicker, more efficient style of service. Frankly, I wouldn’t have it any other way!
11. Football (Soccer) terminology
In America, “football” refers to a completely different sport, and the term “soccer” is used to describe what Brits call “football.” For Brits, calling it soccer instead of football feels a bit strange, but in the US, “football” is all about touchdowns, not goals.
12. Fast food culture
Americans have a huge fast food culture, where drive-thru options and quick meals are part of everyday life. In the UK, while fast food is certainly popular, it doesn’t have the same omnipresence. Brits might grab a quick meal at a fast food chain, but it’s not nearly as ingrained in the culture as it is in the US.
13. Saying “sorry” for everything
In the UK, saying “sorry” is a reflexive part of everyday speech. Brits will apologise for things we aren’t even responsible for, whether it’s bumping into someone or hearing bad news. In the US, apologising in such situations isn’t as common, and it tends to be reserved for when you’ve actually done something wrong.
