Brits and Americans are two sides of the same coin in many respects, but there are still plenty of differences between us.
Many of those differences come down to personality traits. While we Brits tend to be a bit more reserved and understated, our Yankee friends are much more effusive and “out there.” In many ways, it’s refreshing. However, to the more traditional among us, those qualities can be slightly… off-putting. Whether you admire them or are repelled by them, these qualities scream “American!” pretty loudly (sometimes literally).
1. Over-the-top enthusiasm
Americans are often seen as incredibly enthusiastic, whether it’s about a new restaurant or a morning coffee. While that excitement can be contagious, we tend to express our excitement in more of an understated way. A casual “Not bad, mate” is often more the vibe we’re going for. It’s a big difference that can make us feel like we’re in a constant state of high energy, even when all we want is a quiet moment.
2. Constant self-promotion
People from the US have a natural talent for talking themselves up, whether it’s bragging about work achievements or their weekend plans. Brits, on the other hand, tend to be more humble — often too humble, in fact. The constant “look at me” vibe can be a bit much! We value modesty and a more understated approach to success, rather than broadcasting every little win.
3. The need to always be “on”
Americans are known for their high-energy, always-enthusiastic persona, and the pressure to be constantly “on.” However, we love our downtime and don’t mind a quiet, calm atmosphere. The unrelenting cheery attitude can make us feel like we’re in an episode of a reality show. It’s exhausting to always be expected to perform or be the life of the party when we’d rather enjoy a peaceful moment.
4. Over-sharing personal details
Americans tend to overshare, sometimes talking about their deepest, most personal details in public. Brits, however, prefer to keep things a bit more private. There’s no need to discuss your feelings about your last meal or what you had for breakfast with a stranger, thanks! We believe in keeping the private stuff just that — private — and there’s nothing wrong with a little mystery.
5. The “Hey, how’s it going?” greeting
In the US, greetings like “Hey, how’s it going?” are casual and common, even with strangers. Brits, however, aren’t as fond of this overly friendly approach. We tend to prefer something a bit more straightforward, like a nod and an “Alright, mate?” It’s all about respecting personal space and not diving straight into someone’s personal business without permission.
6. The “If you don’t like it, just leave” attitude
Americans are often more direct in their opinions, and they’re not afraid to tell people to leave if they disagree. Brits, on the other hand, prefer to handle disagreement a little more tactfully. It’s the British way to silently seethe and then make passive-aggressive remarks later! We’re more about subtly navigating differences than engaging in direct confrontation.
7. Over-the-top compliments
In the US, compliments come fast and furious — “You look amazing!” or “That’s the best outfit I’ve ever seen!” While it’s always nice to hear something positive, Brits tend to be a little more understated. A good “That’s a nice shirt” will do just fine, no need to go overboard. We prefer to keep things genuine and not turn compliments into a performance.
8. Constant hustle and ambition
Americans love to hustle, always striving to be the best. While this drive is admirable, Brits often prefer a more relaxed pace. We’re all for ambition, but we also value enjoying the moment rather than constantly chasing the next big thing. The pressure to always do more can feel a bit draining, especially when we’re just looking for a slower, more balanced life.
9. The “larger than life” attitude
Americans often have big personalities and tend to take up a lot of space in a room, both physically and mentally. Brits, however, tend to value a more understated presence, so a quiet corner and a cup of tea is more our speed. We don’t mind a little charisma, but there’s something about people who are a bit too loud that feels a little overwhelming.
10. Excessive optimism
Americans tend to be relentlessly optimistic, always seeing the glass half full, no matter the situation. Brits, while generally positive, tend to be a little more realistic. There’s no harm in optimism, but we love to balance it with a healthy dose of cynicism! A bit of dry humour goes a long way in balancing out that cheery vibe.
11. The “everyone’s your friend” mentality
Americans are known for being incredibly friendly and treating even strangers like old friends. While it’s nice to be warm and welcoming, Brits are a little more reserved. We’re happy to strike up a conversation, but it takes a bit more than a smile to earn that “mate” status. Friendship, in our eyes, takes time and a bit of trust.
12. Public displays of affection
In the US, PDA is pretty common — holding hands, kissing, hugging. Brits? Not so much. A subtle hand-holding might happen, but showing too much affection in public tends to make us squirm. A respectful distance is our preferred comfort zone, and it’s just more fitting to express affection in private.
13. Over-enthusiastic cheerleading
Americans are known for being cheerleaders, whether it’s in sports or for a friend’s new venture. While it’s great to be supportive, Brits tend to be more understated about it. A good “Good luck” is enough, without the pom-poms! We prefer to support quietly, without making a big deal out of it.
14. The “everyone’s a winner” mindset
In the US, there’s often an emphasis on making everyone feel like a winner. While it’s nice to feel included, Brits tend to be more focused on reality. It’s okay to lose now and then, and we’re fine with it — no need for everyone to get a medal. We believe in celebrating achievements, but we also embrace the idea that not everything is a win, and that’s okay!
