As Brits, there’s nothing we love more than poking fun at our American friends across the pond (except maybe a Greggs sausage roll and a decent cuppa, of course).
We like to rib them for being too loud, too cheery, and a bit dim, or even a bit uncultured at times, but there are a lot of things about people from the US that many of us really admire. It makes sense if you think about it. While those of us who grew up in the UK were taught to be more reserved, passive, and sometimes even passive-aggressive, Americans just, well, lay it all out there. We might not want to trade places with them, but if we’re honest with ourselves, a lot of Brits think these American personality traits aren’t actually all that bad.
1. Their unwavering optimism.
Americans are great at looking on the bright side, even when things are falling apart. Their ability to turn even the smallest win into a reason for celebration can feel refreshingly positive, especially to Brits who are known for their love of a good moan. That “glass half full” mindset can be strangely inspiring. It’s not just about the optimism — it’s the way they make you believe in it, too. Whether it’s their confidence in achieving the “American Dream” or simply their belief that tomorrow will be better, it’s a level of positivity that’s hard not to admire, even if it sometimes feels a bit over the top.
2. Their fearless friendliness
Striking up a conversation with a complete stranger? To Brits, that sounds a bit terrifying, but Americans seem to do it with ease. From the chatty barista to the overly helpful shop assistant, their openness can make even the most reserved Brit feel a little warm inside (once we get over the initial shock). What’s even more impressive is how genuine it often feels. Americans can make you feel like the most important person in the room, even if you’ve only just met. It’s a skill that adds a touch of charm to their personality and leaves many Brits wondering if we should start talking to strangers more often too. (We’ll pass!)
3. Their unmatched confidence
Americans are pros at walking into a room like they own the place. Whether it’s a job interview or a casual dinner party, they exude a level of self-assurance that’s enviable. Brits might view this as “showing off,” but deep down, there’s admiration for the way they carry themselves. They don’t just have confidence, they unapologetically embrace it. While we Brits might downplay our successes with a self-deprecating joke, Americans have no problem owning their achievements, and that kind of self-belief is something worth applauding.
4. Their love of big dreams
Americans are masters of dreaming big. Whether it’s starting a business, becoming a movie star, or moving to the big city, there’s no limit to their ambition. By contrast, we often feel like we’re getting away with something if we dare to dream beyond our postcode (and our fellow countrymen don’t let us forget it!). That “go big or go home” attitude people from the US have can be inspiring. It reminds us that it’s okay to want more and to chase after it without worrying about being “too much.”
5. Their unshakable enthusiasm
No one does enthusiasm quite like Americans. Whether it’s cheering on their sports teams, celebrating Halloween with all-out decorations, or clapping for the pilot when the plane lands, their excitement is contagious. Many of us find it a bit cringe at first, but secretly, it’s endearing. All that boundless energy can turn even the most mundane event into something worth remembering. It’s a reminder that life doesn’t always have to be understated, and sometimes, going all in can be a lot of fun.
6. Their ability to hustle
Americans take the phrase “work hard, play hard” to heart. Whether they’re juggling multiple side gigs or climbing the corporate ladder, their dedication to achieving their goals is impressive. A lot of us Brits roll our eyes at the “grind culture,” but there’s a certain respect for that work ethic. It’s not just about the hustle, it’s about the optimism that fuels it. Americans genuinely believe hard work pays off, and that kind of determination can be motivating, even if we prefer to complain about the commute instead.
7. Their intense patriotism
Source: Unsplash Americans are unapologetically proud of their country, and their love for red, white, and blue runs deep. From Fourth of July celebrations to singing the national anthem at every opportunity, their patriotism is next level. Brits might joke about it, but deep down, there’s admiration for the unity it brings. It’s not about the displays of national pride — those can get a bit cringe and border on populism/nationalism, and that’s the last thing we need. However, it’s the way they celebrate their heritage and traditions with such gusto. It’s a reminder of the power of collective pride, even if we would rather quietly mumble through “God Save the King.”
8. Their bold sense of style
Americans are unafraid to go bold when it comes to fashion. From head-to-toe cowboy gear to daring Met Gala outfits, they embrace their personal style with confidence. Most of us on this side of the Atlantic lean toward understated fashion, but there’s something to admire about the way Americans wear their personality on their sleeve — literally. That fearless approach to style encourages self-expression in a way that’s hard not to admire. It’s a reminder that fashion is about having fun and taking risks, even if you wouldn’t be caught dead in a sequinned cowboy hat yourself.
9. Their love of celebrating everything
Americans will find a reason to celebrate just about anything. From National Doughnut Day to elaborate Sweet 16 parties, they know how to turn everyday moments into events. We make fun of them for this, but deep down, we’re impressed by the enthusiasm. There’s something refreshing about finding joy in the small stuff. It’s a reminder that life doesn’t have to be serious all the time, and sometimes, throwing a party just because is exactly what you need to break up the routine.
10. Their way with words
Americans have a knack for making everything sound exciting. Whether it’s “awesome,” “amazing,” or “incredible,” their vocabulary is full of big, bold words that make even the smallest things feel larger than life. Brits, by contrast, might settle for a subdued “not bad.” It’s not just the words they use, either. It’s that they deliver them with such conviction that you can’t help but feel excited, too. Their enthusiasm is infectious, turning even the most mundane conversations into something worth remembering.
11. Their love for adventure
From road trips across the country to spontaneous weekend getaways, Americans have a deep love for exploring. Brits might stick to their local pub or familiar holiday spots, but there’s admiration for the adventurous spirit that fuels Americans’ wanderlust. That sense of exploration is a reminder that the world is big and full of opportunities. It’s inspiring to see how they embrace new experiences with open arms, even if it’s just a quick detour to check out a quirky roadside attraction.
12. Their heartfelt compliments
Americans are generous with compliments, and they’re not afraid to dish them out freely. Whether it’s your outfit, your smile, or your cooking, they’ll let you know when they’re impressed. Most of us are wary of overdoing it, but there’s something lovely about hearing kind words so often. They don’t just say nice things, they have conviction with it. Americans have a way of making you feel genuinely appreciated, and that’s something Brits could definitely stand to borrow more often.
13. Their open-minded attitude
Americans are often quick to embrace new ideas, whether it’s a trend, technology, or a fresh perspective. Brits might be more cautious, but there’s respect for the way Americans dive head first into change and innovation. Their willingness to adapt is a reminder that being open-minded can lead to exciting opportunities. It’s inspiring to see how they welcome the unknown with curiosity instead of hesitation.
14. Their unapologetic love for fun
Whether it’s a backyard barbecue, a karaoke night, or a citywide festival, Americans know how to have a good time. We might prefer a pint in a quiet pub, but there’s admiration for the way Americans throw themselves into fun without holding back. It’s a reminder that life is meant to be enjoyed, and sometimes, it’s okay to be a little loud, a little over-the-top, and a lot of fun. That passion for life is something Brits secretly admire, even as we sip our tea and pretend otherwise.
