If you’ve fallen for someone whose head’s always in the clouds, good luck to you.
Source: Unsplash I kid! Dreamy people are great in their own way, but relationships with them often require a higher level of patience and understanding, as they have their own unique ways of doing things and seeing the world. Here are some things to remember if your partner has this personality type.
1. Their mind is always on adventure.
Get ready for some spontaneous adventures! One minute you’re having a quiet night in, the next you’re planning a road trip to chase the Northern Lights. It’s like being with your very own Peter Pan, minus the tights (usually). Embrace the spontaneity — you might find yourself doing things you never imagined, like salsa dancing in Cuba or hunting for ghosts in an old castle. Just keep some snacks and a spare charger handy — you never know where you’ll end up!
2. Reality isn’t always their strong suit.
Source: Unsplash Admittedly, your dreamer might sometimes forget about boring stuff like paying bills or buying groceries. They’re too busy imagining their next big idea or pondering the meaning of life. You might need to be the voice of reason occasionally. Think of yourself as their friendly neighbourhood reality check. But hey, someone’s got to make sure the fridge isn’t just filled with hopes and dreams (spoiler alert: you can’t eat those).
3. They’ll inspire you to reach for the stars.
Dreamers have a knack for making the impossible seem possible. Your partner might have you believing you can write a bestseller or start a successful llama farm. And you know what? Maybe you can! Their enthusiasm is infectious, and before you know it, you’ll be dreaming big too. Just maybe start with one llama and work your way up.
4. Patience is key (seriously, stock up on it).
Source: Unsplash Loving a dreamer means sometimes waiting for them to come back down to Earth. They might get lost in thought mid-conversation or forget about dinner plans because they’re busy inventing the next big thing. Take a deep breath and remember: their wandering mind is part of their charm. Plus, it gives you time to catch up on your favourite shows while they’re mentally redesigning the solar system.
5. They’ll notice the little things a lot of people miss.
Dreamers have a unique way of seeing the world. They’ll point out the way the light hits a raindrop or find shapes in the clouds that’ll blow your mind. It’s like dating a poet and a philosopher rolled into one. Sure, they might not notice that the rubbish needs taking out, but they’ll make your daily commute feel like a magical journey.
6. Be prepared for lots of unfinished projects.
Source: Unsplash Your dreamer’s enthusiasm for new ideas is endless. Their follow-through? Not always so much. You might find half-written novels, partially painted canvases, or the beginnings of a time machine scattered around your living space. Think of it as living in a very unique art installation. Who knows? One day, one of these projects might turn into the next big thing. Until then, maybe designate a “dreamer’s corner” for all those works-in-progress.
7. They’ll challenge your perspective on everything.
Get ready for some mind-bending conversations. Your dreamer will have you questioning everything from the nature of reality to why hotdogs come in packs of 10, but buns in packs of 8. It’s like having your own personal TED talk at the dinner table every night. You’ll never be bored, that’s for sure. Just be prepared to sometimes say, “It’s 3 AM, can we please just go to sleep?”
8. Their emotions can be as big as their dreams.
Dreamers feel things deeply. Their highs are stratospheric, and their lows can be pretty low. One day, they’re on top of the world because they had a great idea, the next they’re questioning their entire existence. It’s an emotional rollercoaster, but hey, at least it’s never dull. Keep some chocolate on hand for the low days, and be ready to celebrate the highs with impromptu dance parties.
9. They might need help with the practical stuff.
While your dreamer is busy contemplating the mysteries of the universe, someone’s got to remember to buy toilet paper. That someone might often be you. Think of yourself as the anchor that keeps them tethered to reality — in the most loving way possible, of course. It’s a balance: they help you see the magic in life, you help them remember that magic can’t pay the electric bill.
10. Their creativity will keep things fresh.
Boredom? What’s that? Your dreamer will always have a new idea to spice things up. Date nights might involve anything from stargazing picnics to attempting to break a world record for the longest continuous high-five. They’ll turn mundane tasks into adventures — suddenly, grocery shopping becomes a quest to find the most exotic fruit in the store. Just be prepared for the occasional “Let’s learn to juggle fire!” suggestion.
11. They’ll need your support when reality hits hard.
Sometimes, the real world can be a bit harsh on dreamers. When their grand plans don’t work out or people don’t understand their vision, they might need a shoulder to lean on. That’s where you come in. Be their cheerleader, their safe harbour in the storm. Remind them that their dreams are valid, even if that plan to communicate with dolphins didn’t quite pan out. And maybe keep some ice cream in the freezer for those “the world doesn’t understand me” moments.
12. Time is a flexible concept for them.
Your dreamer might have a… let’s say “unique” relationship with time. They might get so caught up in their thoughts that they lose track of hours, or even days. “I’ll be ready in five minutes” could mean anything from actually five minutes to “I just had an idea for a novel and I need to write the first chapter right now.” Invest in a good watch, set multiple alarms, and maybe consider telling them events start an hour earlier than they actually do.
13. They’ll teach you to see beauty everywhere.
Through your dreamer’s eyes, the world becomes a more magical place. That rusty old car? It’s not junk, it’s a time capsule with stories to tell. The weeds in the garden? Nature’s rebellion against conformity. They’ll help you find wonder in the everyday, turning your life into an ongoing adventure. Just be prepared for impromptu stops to admire “the way the sun hits that dustbin just right.”
14. Love them for who they are, not who you think they could be.
Here’s the big one: love your dreamer for exactly who they are. Don’t try to change them or “ground” them too much. Their dreamy nature is what makes them special. Sure, you might need to gently remind them about real-world responsibilities now and then, but never try to clip their wings. After all, you fell for a dreamer — enjoy the flight! Just maybe keep a parachute handy, just in case.
