Moving to America can be exciting, but the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.
While there are some great things about living on the other side of the pond, leaving Blighty isn’t always a total relief. Even if the wages are higher and houses are bigger in the US, Brits who move to America often end up missing a lot about their old lives back home. Here are just some of the things about the UK they tend to miss once they head to the States.
1. Reliable public transport makes life so much easier.
Hear me out here. Our train system may be an absolute joke, but it’s still better than America. Many UK cities have extensive public transport networks, making it easy to get around without a car. Buses, trains, and even the London Underground provide a level of convenience that’s hard to match elsewhere. In contrast, much of America is built around driving, leaving expats feeling stranded without a car. Even in cities with public transport, the experience can be frustratingly slow or unreliable. Many expats find themselves longing for the ease of tapping an Oyster card or hopping on a bus every few minutes. The shift from a well-connected system to one where driving is a necessity can be a real adjustment.
2. The NHS takes the stress out of healthcare.
Moving from a system where healthcare is free at the point of use to one where medical bills can be sky-high is a huge shock. The NHS may have its flaws, but knowing you won’t be hit with a massive bill just for seeing a doctor is reassuring. Even prescriptions in the UK are far cheaper compared to the unpredictable costs in America. Many expats struggle with navigating private insurance, high deductibles, and unexpected fees. The sheer complexity of the American healthcare system can make even the simplest medical appointments stressful. It’s one of the biggest things UK expats appreciate more after moving away.
3. British humour isn’t quite the same across the pond.
Dry sarcasm, self-deprecating jokes, and deadpan delivery are a staple of British conversation. In America, humour tends to be more direct, enthusiastic, and sometimes a little more literal. Many expats find themselves having to adjust their jokes or explain their humour more than they expected. Even British TV comedy feels different, with its understated wit and subtle absurdity. While America has great comedy, there’s something about British banter that just can’t be replicated. It’s a cultural shift that many don’t realise they’ll miss until they experience the difference first-hand.
4. The ease of popping to the local pub can’t be beaten.
Pubs are a core part of British culture, offering a cosy, relaxed atmosphere for a casual drink or a proper Sunday roast. In America, bars tend to have a louder, more energetic feel, often centred around sports or nightlife rather than being a local hub for all ages. The simple pleasure of walking to a traditional pub, ordering a pint without table service, and enjoying a quiet chat is something many expats long for. Pubs have a unique charm that bars in America don’t quite capture, no matter how great the selection of craft beers might be.
5. Food portions don’t always need to be supersized.
Eating out in America can feel overwhelming, with portion sizes often double what you’d get in the UK. While the value for money is great, many expats find it tough to adjust to the sheer amount of food served in restaurants. It’s not just meals— supermarkets also stock massive packaging for everything from crisps to soft drinks. For those used to more moderate portion sizes, it can take time to get used to the idea of leftovers being a standard part of dining out. While some enjoy the generous servings, others miss being able to finish a meal without needing a takeaway box.
6. British supermarkets make everyday shopping easier.
There’s a level of convenience in UK supermarkets that’s hard to appreciate until it’s gone. Meal deals, reasonably sized packaging, and a wide range of fresh produce make for an effortless shopping experience. In America, navigating massive grocery stores with overwhelming choices and bulk-buy options can be a bit much. Many expats also miss UK favourites that aren’t easy to find abroad. From crumpets to proper bacon and a good selection of tea, some staples just don’t translate well across the Atlantic. Shopping becomes a mix of adapting to new brands and hunting for familiar comforts.
7. Walkable towns and cities aren’t as common.
In the UK, many towns and city centres are designed for pedestrians, with shops, cafes, and amenities within easy walking distance. America, on the other hand, is largely built around driving, making car ownership almost essential outside of a few major cities. The lack of walkable high streets can be a big adjustment. Even getting to the nearest shop can require a car journey, something many British expats find frustrating. The charm of strolling to a local bakery or quickly popping into a shop on foot isn’t as common, making everyday tasks feel less convenient.
8. TV licences might be annoying, but UK television is worth it.
Many expats don’t fully appreciate British television until they move abroad. The UK offers a strong line-up of free-to-air channels, quality dramas, and a diverse mix of programming. In America, cable subscriptions can be expensive, and finding a service that matches the BBC’s level of content without adverts isn’t easy. Streaming services help, but there’s something about flicking through UK channels and landing on a decent show without needing a subscription. Many also miss the familiar pacing and storytelling style of British TV, which feels quite different from the fast-paced, ad-heavy structure of American programming.
9. Bank holidays actually mean something in the UK.
UK bank holidays offer nationwide days off that many take for granted. In America, public holidays don’t always mean a day off, and different states may observe different rules. For those used to a guaranteed long weekend, adjusting to a system where many still have to work on public holidays can be disappointing. While America has its own major celebrations, the consistency of UK bank holidays is something many miss. Having set days off throughout the year creates a rhythm that American holidays don’t always match.
10. Christmas in the UK feels cosier and more traditional.
There’s a certain charm to Christmas in the UK that’s hard to replicate. From Christmas adverts and cosy pub gatherings to festive lights in every town centre, the season has a warmth that many expats miss. While America does Christmas on a grand scale, the UK’s traditions have a more nostalgic, homey feel. Many expats also miss the simple pleasures of mince pies, Christmas crackers, and watching the Queen’s (or now the King’s) speech. The festive period in America is great, but for many, it just doesn’t quite have the same magic.
11. Driving tests in the UK actually prepare you for the road.
Passing a driving test in the UK is a major achievement, with strict requirements and thorough assessments. In America, the process is often much easier, leading some expats to feel that drivers aren’t as well-prepared. The differences in road rules and driving culture can take some getting used to. Many British expats feel more confident in UK driving standards, especially when it comes to roundabouts, road etiquette, and defensive driving skills. Adjusting to a system where driving is less regulated can be an unexpected challenge.
11. UK weather might be grey, but at least it’s predictable.
Complaining about the British weather is a national pastime, but many expats realise they prefer mild, drizzly days over America’s extreme climate shifts. Depending on the state, temperatures can swing from scorching summers to freezing winters, making British weather seem far more manageable. While sunny days are great, many miss the UK’s steady, temperate climate. Sudden heatwaves, hurricanes, or snowstorms can make British rain feel like a small price to pay.
