Some people see being single as a punishment, but for others, it’s basically the dream.
It’s not that you’re anti-love and relationships, you’re just happy and fulfilled on your own, and you’d quite like to keep your life just as it is. There’s no shame in that — you do what’s right for you. Here are some signs that staying solo isn’t something that you’re forced into — it’s just how you like it!
1. You’re obsessed with your “me time”.
Let’s be real, you live for those moments when it’s just you, yourself, and… well, you. Whether you’re bingeing your favourite show or taking yourself out for a cheeky coffee, solo time is your happy place. It’s not that you hate people, you just really dig your own company.
2. The thought of syncing schedules gives you the heebie-jeebies.
When your coupled-up mates start talking about coordinating date nights and weekends away, you can’t help but feel a bit smug. The idea of having to run your plans by someone else? No thanks! You’re all about that spontaneous life, deciding on a whim to have ice cream for dinner or jet off on a last-minute adventure.
3. You’re happy for your loved-up friends, but you’re not itching to join the club.
Sure, you get a bit misty-eyed at your friend’s wedding, but more because you’re happy for them than wishing it was you. When they start gushing about their other half, you’re genuinely pleased — but also secretly relieved you don’t have to deal with someone else’s snoring or dirty socks.
4. You’re all about that self-improvement life.
You’ve got goals! Whether it’s smashing it at work, learning to speak French, or finally mastering the art of sourdough, you’re always working on yourself. The thought of putting your dreams on the back burner for someone else’s gets a hard pass from you.
5. Your squad is your rock.
Who needs a significant other when you’ve got a top-notch social circle? Your friends, family, and maybe a fur baby or two give you all the warm fuzzies you need. Movie nights, group chats, and Sunday roasts with the fam keep your social tank full to the brim.
6. The whole “relationship escalator” thing leaves you cold.
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes… wait, who says that’s how it has to go? The idea of ticking off those traditional relationship boxes feels more like a chore than a dream come true. You’re writing your own life script, thank you very much!
7. You’re the master of your own destiny (and you like it that way).
Big life choices? You’ve got this. Whether it’s switching careers or moving to a new city, you trust your gut and go for it. The thought of having to run these decisions by a partner feels like putting a leash on your freedom.
8. Your pad is your personal paradise.
Your place is set up just the way you like it, whether that’s a minimalist dream or organised chaos. The idea of compromising on your living space — or worse, finding someone else’s pants on your floor — doesn’t exactly fill you with joy.
9. Dating feels more like a chore than a treat.
Sure, getting dressed up and meeting new people can be fun… for about an hour. But more often than not, you find yourself clock-watching and dreaming about your sofa. The “thrill of the chase”? More like the “yawn of obligation”.
10. Your future plans are a party of one (and that’s okay!).
When you daydream about the future, it’s all about your goals, your travels, your adventures. Funnily enough, there’s no plus-one in these visions. It’s not that you’re against love, it’s just that your life feels pretty epic as is.
11. You guard your bank account like a boss.
The thought of joining bank accounts or arguing over who paid for what last time makes you break out in a cold sweat. You like managing your own cash, whether that means splurging on a new gadget or being a savvy saver.
12. The golden years don’t scare you.
While some people panic about growing old alone, you’re too busy planning which hobbies you’ll take up in retirement. You’re confident you’ll be rocking the single life well into your twilight years, surrounded by friends and probably a small army of cats.
13. You’ve got enough on your plate (and you like it that way).
Between your job, your side hustle, your friends, and that pottery class you’ve been meaning to take, your life is pretty jam-packed. The idea of squeezing in quality time with a partner feels more stressful than exciting.
14. Being the third wheel? More like being the life of the party!
You don’t just tolerate being the single one in your friend group — you own it. Who else is going to liven up couple’s game night or be the unofficial photographer on group holidays? You’re not just the single friend, you’re the fun friend.
15. “Settling down” sounds suspiciously like “settling for less”.
Every time someone mentions settling down, you can’t help but think, “Down from what?” Your life is an adventure, and the idea of toning it down for the sake of a relationship doesn’t exactly set your world on fire.
16. Your heroes are the solo superstars.
When it comes to role models, you’re more inspired by the folks who are smashing it on their own than by power couples. Those independent trailblazers who are living life on their own terms? That’s the dream, as far as you’re concerned.
