Is there anything worse than someone who seems to think they’re God’s gift to the world?
These people often have a way of making everything about themselves because they think they’re so great and want everyone else to come to the same conclusion. (Sadly, it’s usually the opposite.) Here are 16 things you might hear from someone who loves themselves a bit too much.
1. “I’m just being honest.”
You’ve probably heard this after they’ve said something unnecessarily blunt or mean. They use “honesty” as a cover for being rude, acting like they’re doing you a favour by saying whatever they want. They think their opinions are more important than your feelings, and this line helps them dodge accountability.
2. “I’m not like other girls/guys.”
This one’s classic—they think being “different” makes them special. They often say this to put other people down while boosting themselves up. It’s less about being unique and more about fishing for compliments, trying to show how superior they are without actually saying it.
3. “I’m just too good at what I do.”
This is their way of bragging, but they’ll try to make it sound humble. They genuinely believe they’re better than everyone else, and if things don’t go their way, they assume it’s because their skills were just too good for the situation. It’s a convenient way to dodge real self-improvement.
4. “You’re lucky to have me.”
They think they’re the prize in any relationship, and this phrase shows they believe you should feel privileged just to know them. Even when they’re joking, there’s a strong undercurrent of truth—they believe they bring more to the table than anyone else.
5. “I’m sorry you feel that way.”
This non-apology shifts the blame onto you. They’re not sorry for what they said or did; they’re sorry you reacted negatively. It’s their way of maintaining innocence while making you feel like the problem for having emotions.
6. “I’m just living my best life.”
They’ll use this to justify doing whatever they want, even when it’s selfish or hurtful. They act like their personal happiness excuses any bad behaviour, and if you’re upset by it, that’s your issue, not theirs.
7. “No one understands me.”
This line makes them feel special and misunderstood, like they’re so complex that ordinary people can’t grasp them. It’s a way to dodge criticism or advice by acting like their situation is too unique for anyone else to get it.
8. “I’m just speaking my truth.”
They’ll use this to make their opinions seem more valid than anyone else’s. It’s a way of framing their point of view as unchallengeable, implying that since it’s their “truth,” no one can argue with it—even if it’s insensitive or wrong.
9. “I don’t care what anyone thinks.”
They like to pretend they’re unbothered by other people’s opinions, but usually, it’s the opposite. This phrase is a shield they use when faced with criticism, acting like they’re above it all when they actually care a lot about how they’re perceived.
10. “I’m a natural leader.”
Source: Unsplash They love to be in control and often use this to justify their bossy behaviour. They don’t just take charge—they have to be in charge. They think they’re better at decision-making than everyone else, even when they’re not the best fit for the role.
11. “I’m just too smart for most people.”
This is their excuse for why they can’t connect with people, or why people don’t see things their way. They believe their intelligence sets them apart in a way that makes it hard for “regular” people to keep up, which conveniently places the blame for any social failures on everyone else.
12. “I’m not high-maintenance, I just know my worth.”
They say this to mask unreasonable demands as self-respect. While it’s great to know your worth, they take it to a level where they expect special treatment. If anyone falls short of these expectations, they’re quick to paint them as inadequate.
13. “I’m just too real for some people.”
This phrase is their go-to when they’ve upset someone. Instead of admitting they might’ve been rude or out of line, they chalk it up to being “real,” as if being inconsiderate is a virtue. They’ll convince themselves that the problem is other people being too sensitive.
14. “I’m not perfect, but I’m pretty close.”
They’ll throw this line out there in a joking way, but they really believe it. It’s their way of bragging without fully admitting that they think they’re nearly flawless. Even when acknowledging faults, they downplay them, convinced their imperfections are minimal compared to everyone else’s.
15. “I’m just misunderstood.”
Source: Unsplash When criticised, they often use this line to avoid taking responsibility. They’re not wrong; they’re just not being properly understood. It’s a way for them to feel like the victim while continuing to act however they want, dismissing any feedback they don’t like.
16. “I don’t need anyone else.”
Source: Unsplash They use this to project independence, but it’s usually a cover for fear of rejection. They push people away before anyone can hurt them, acting like they’re self-sufficient to the point of not needing meaningful connections. This can lead to isolation, but they’ll insist they prefer it that way.
