Concerts are all about the music and the vibe, but sometimes the people in the crowd can really test your patience.
The tickets were likely incredibly expensive, and you just wanted to watch one of your favourite artists perform. Unfortunately, the other people at the show seem to have forgotten how to act like normal human beings. Here are the things inconsiderate concert-goers do that can make you wish you stayed home.
1. Constantly recording on their phones
We’ve all seen it—people holding up their phones for nearly the entire show, trying to capture every second. Sure, a few clips are fine, but when your view is blocked by a sea of screens, it can get pretty annoying. Not only are they missing the actual experience, but they’re making it harder for everyone else to enjoy it, too. Next time, try putting the phone down and soaking in the moment. It’s likely to be a more memorable experience than any video could be.
2. Loudly talking over the music
A concert isn’t the best place for casual chit-chat, yet some people seem to think it’s the perfect time to catch up. When you’re there for the music, it’s frustrating to have someone right next to you chatting away. Even worse, they usually seem oblivious to the fact that they’re disrupting the vibe. If you’re with friends who want to talk, maybe suggest they keep it to a minimum during the show and save the conversations for later.
3. Pushing to the front with no regard for the people who are standing there
There’s always that one person who thinks they have a VIP pass to the front row, shoving their way through without a second thought. It’s not just rude—it disrupts everyone who’s already found their spot and settled in. The thing is, most people would let you through with a quick “excuse me” or even a friendly smile. But barging in just throws off everyone’s good time.
4. Aggressively dancing or moshing in a mellow crowd
Nothing against dancing or getting into the music, but sometimes there’s a mismatch in energy levels. When one person’s dancing gets out of hand, it can make everyone else uncomfortable, especially if it’s not that kind of crowd. If you’re feeling the need to move, maybe find an open spot or a designated area for dancing. Everyone gets to enjoy the music in their own way without any awkward collisions.
5. Singing loudly and off-key
We get it—the song is great, and you’re feeling it. But when someone sings every word at the top of their lungs and way off-key, it can really take you out of the moment. There’s a fine line between enjoying the music and overpowering the artist. Singing along at a reasonable volume lets you enjoy the moment without overpowering everyone around you.
6. Shouting random things at the performer
People love to scream random things at the stage, hoping for a moment of interaction with the artist. But when it’s constant, it interrupts the flow of the show for everyone. The artist is probably not going to hear you, let alone respond, and shouting over their performance just throws off the vibe. Save those enthusiastic shouts for the applause or designated crowd moments, keeping the rest of the show focused on the music.
7. Spilling drinks everywhere
Holding a drink while trying to navigate a crowd is no easy feat, but some people seem to spill more than they sip. A splash here and there is understandable, but constantly dripping drinks or stumbling with them is a quick way to annoy everyone around. Consider finishing your drink away from the crowd or putting a lid on it if you’re moving around. It’s way more enjoyable for everyone when the floor isn’t a sticky mess.
8. Blocking the view with oversized signs or flags
Seeing people with giant signs or waving flags can be distracting, especially when it completely blocks the stage. Sure, it’s a fun way to show support, but it can be a real mood killer for anyone standing behind. If you want to hold something up, maybe bring it out for just a quick wave rather than the entire show. It’s a considerate way to share your enthusiasm without taking away from everyone else’s experience.
9. Starting arguments with other fans
Concerts are meant to bring people together, but every now and then, arguments break out over space, spilled drinks, or other small issues. Tensions can run high in a packed venue, but taking a step back can usually resolve things without making it a bigger deal. Keeping calm helps everyone get back to the music and makes the atmosphere much more enjoyable for everyone involved.
10. Constantly moving around for a “better” spot
We’ve all seen those people who can’t seem to settle and are constantly moving, trying to find the “perfect” spot. But all that back-and-forth disrupts everyone else and can get pretty annoying. Concerts are more enjoyable when you pick a spot, get comfortable, and focus on the performance instead of worrying about finding the “best” view. The music is the same wherever you stand, so why not just enjoy it?
