Everyone wants to look their best, obviously, but sometimes, the things people do to look younger end up having the opposite effect.
Whether it’s styling choices, beauty habits, or even the way you carry yourself, some things can unintentionally add years instead of subtracting them. Some of these habits come from outdated beauty advice, while others are simply small mistakes that make a bigger impact than expected. If you’re trying to maintain a youthful look, maybe give these practices a miss.
1. Overloading on foundation
Thick, full-coverage foundation might seem like the best way to create a flawless look, but too much product can settle into fine lines and exaggerate texture. Instead of hiding signs of ageing, heavy foundation can actually highlight them, making skin look drier and less radiant than it really is. A lightweight, dewy formula works better (NARS Sheer Glow is a personal favourite, but there are plenty of others). Instead of covering everything, try a sheer foundation or a tinted moisturiser that evens out skin tone without looking heavy. A touch of concealer in targeted areas can brighten the complexion without creating a mask-like effect. Less really is more when it comes to foundation.
2. Ignoring your eyebrows
Eyebrows naturally thin out with age, and leaving them sparse or overplucking them can instantly make you look older. On the other hand, going too dark, overly arched, or heavily filled-in can create a harsh look that draws attention in all the wrong ways. The key is finding a soft, natural shape that complements your features. Using a light hand with a brow pencil or a tinted gel can add fullness without making them look drawn on. Subtle definition with hair-like strokes helps maintain a more balanced appearance without looking overly structured or artificial.
3. Wearing outdated hairstyles
Hanging onto a haircut from years ago might feel familiar, but it can also add years to your overall appearance. Certain styles, such as stiff, heavily layered cuts from the early 2000s or overly voluminous styles, can make you seem older than you are. A hairstyle that was trendy 10 or 20 years ago might not frame your face in the most flattering way anymore. Modern, effortless styles tend to look a bit younger. Soft layers, curtain bangs, and fresh, textured bobs add movement and create a relaxed, natural look. Regular trims and experimenting with updated styles can help refresh your appearance while still keeping your personal style intact.
4. Choosing the wrong hair colour
Hair colour plays a huge role in how young you look. Going too dark can make fine lines and shadows more pronounced, while going too light or too ashy can wash out your features. An overly warm or brassy tone can also add years to your look, making your skin appear dull or sallow. Opting for multidimensional colour — think soft highlights, lowlights, or a slightly warmer, blended tone — can brighten your face and make your complexion look healthier. A bit of contrast and depth in your hair colour keeps it looking more natural and vibrant, which naturally enhances your vitality.
5. Wearing heavy eyeliner
Thick, dark eyeliner might seem like a good way to define the eyes, but it can actually make them look smaller and more tired. Applying a harsh, dramatic line, especially on both the upper and lower lash lines, can create a dragging effect that makes the eyes appear less lifted. Softer, smudged eyeliner or a tightlining technique (applying liner close to the lash line) can define the eyes without overpowering them. Swapping harsh black liner for a brown or taupe shade can also make the eyes look fresher. A subtle wing or soft flick at the outer corners helps create a lifting effect.
6. Sticking to matte lipstick
Matte lipstick can be beautiful, but it often emphasises dryness and fine lines, especially on lips that naturally lose volume over time. Deep, matte shades can also make lips appear thinner, which tends to age the face rather than enhance it. Opting for creamy, satin, or gloss finishes helps lips look more hydrated and plump. Lighter, fresh tones like soft pinks, peaches, and rosy nudes tend to brighten the complexion and create a more effortless look.
7. Wearing the wrong glasses
Glasses are a statement accessory, but the wrong pair can age you instantly. Outdated frame shapes, heavy designs, or lenses that sit too low on the face can make you look older than you are. Modern, lightweight frames with a subtle lift at the corners (like cat-eye or slightly rectangular styles) can create a flattering, younger-looking effect. Choosing frames that complement your face shape can make a huge difference in how fresh and modern you look.
8. Neglecting your posture
How you carry yourself plays a big role in how young you look. Slouching or hunching over can make you look tired, less confident, and older than you actually are. Good posture instantly lifts your overall presence. Standing tall, keeping your shoulders back, and holding your head high creates a more energised, fresh appearance. It’s one of the simplest ways to look younger without spending a penny.
9. Wearing too much jewellery at once
Accessories can add personality to an outfit, but overloading on chunky, outdated, or overly coordinated jewellery can unintentionally age you. Heavy statement pieces or old-fashioned styles tend to feel out of touch with modern trends. Minimalist, well-chosen jewellery or one standout piece like delicate hoops, a layered necklace, or a sleek bangle can look fresh and effortlessly stylish. Choosing quality over quantity keeps the focus on you rather than on overwhelming accessories.
10. Dressing too conservatively
There’s nothing wrong with classic style, but overly stiff, structured, or formal outfits can sometimes make you look older. Boxy cuts, heavy fabrics, and ultra-traditional styling can unintentionally add years. Adding relaxed silhouettes, flattering drapes, and modern fabrics helps maintain a balance between polished and a bit younger. Tailoring and updated cuts help create an effortlessly chic look that feels fresh rather than outdated.
11. Wearing baggy, shapeless clothing
On the other hand, drowning in oversized, ill-fitting clothing can make you look less vibrant. While comfort is key, completely hiding your shape under loose fabrics can create a tired or weighed-down appearance. Well-fitted clothing that follows your natural shape without being too tight creates a more effortless look. A well-cut blazer, tailored jeans, or a dress with structure in the right places can make a big difference.
12. Using too much powder
Powder is great for setting makeup, but going overboard can make the skin look dry and dull. Too much powder settles into fine lines and can strip away natural radiance, which is a must for a youthful appearance. A light dusting in key areas like the T-zone works better than covering the entire face. Hydrating setting sprays and cream-based makeup products can help maintain a fresh, dewy finish that looks naturally young.
13. Ignoring skincare beyond your face
Focusing only on your face can create an imbalance if your hands, neck, or décolletage aren’t given the same care. These areas tend to show signs of ageing just as quickly, if not faster. Applying SPF and moisturiser to your neck and hands daily helps maintain an even look. A little extra care goes a long way in keeping everything looking refreshed and well-maintained.
14. Taking yourself too seriously
Looking younger isn’t just about physical appearance — it’s also about energy and mindset. Being resistant to change, overly serious, or stuck in old routines can make you seem older than you actually are. A playful, open attitude keeps you feeling (and looking) young. Trying new things, embracing fun experiences, and surrounding yourself with positive energy all contribute to a more vibrant presence.
