Some people thrive in the company of other people and feel at a bit of a loss when they’re alone; others really shine when they’re all alone.
Of course, there’s no one right way to be. However, if you’re someone who cherishes your alone time and prefers your own company to socialising, you’ve probably had to develop some tricks to make sure you can max out on ‘me time’ whenever possible. See how many of these habits you have — the more you relate to, the more of an introvert you probably are.
1. You’ve perfected the art of the “Irish goodbye”.
Source: Unsplash If you’re a master of the sneaky exit from social gatherings, you’re probably big on alone time. There’s no shame in slipping away when your social battery runs low. Just try not to leave your coat behind — it’s a dead giveaway!
2. Your idea of a perfect Friday night involves pyjamas and a good book.
While others are hitting the town, you’re cosying up with your latest read. If your ideal weekend plans revolve around solitary activities, you’re definitely a ‘me time’ enthusiast. Just remember to surface for air (and snacks) occasionally.
3. You’ve got a stash of “do not disturb” signs.
Whether it’s an actual hotel-style door hanger or just a stern look you’ve perfected, you’ve got ways to signal when you’re not to be bothered. Somehow, people just know they’re better off leaving you to it. You’ll emerge from your shell when you’re good and ready!
4. You’ve mastered the art of looking busy in public.
Source: Unsplash Got your headphones in, even with no music playing? Suddenly very interested in your phone when someone approaches? You’re a pro at creating a bubble of solitude, even in crowded places. It’s like social camouflage for the introvert.
5. Your home is your sanctuary.
Source: Unsplash If you’ve put more thought into making your living space cosy and comfortable than into your social calendar, you’re probably big on alone time. Your home isn’t just where you live — it’s your personal retreat from the world.
6. You’ve got a secret spot for recharging.
Whether it’s a quiet corner in a park or a hidden café, you’ve got a go-to place for when you need to escape and recharge. Whenever you’re feeling a bit overwhelmed or exhausted, you know exactly where to go to restore your energy levels.
7. You celebrate cancelled plans like they’re lottery wins.
Source: Unsplash When someone cancels on you, do you feel a secret thrill? If unexpected free time feels like a gift from the universe, you’re definitely an alone time aficionado. Just try not to look too happy when telling them, “Oh, what a shame!”
8. You’ve got solo hobbies down to a fine art.
Source: Unsplash Knitting, painting, building miniature ships in bottles — whatever your solo hobby is, you’ve fully embraced it. These solitary pursuits are your happy place, and you’ve got the half-finished projects to prove it.
9. You’re an expert at politely declining invitations.
Source: Unsplash You’ve got a whole repertoire of excuses to avoid social engagements when you’re craving alone time. “I’ve got to wash my hair” has never been used so often or so convincingly.
10. Your pets are your favourite companions.
Source: Unsplash If you prefer the company of your furry (or scaly) friends to most humans, you’re likely a bit of an introvert. They don’t talk back, they’re always happy to see you, and they respect your need for quiet. Perfect!
11. You’ve turned your bathroom into a spa experience.
Scented candles, fancy soaps, maybe even a waterproof book holder — your bathroom is set up for long, leisurely self-care sessions. Who needs a spa day when you’ve got your own oasis at home?
12. You’re a night owl or an early bird.
Either way, you cherish those quiet hours when the rest of the world is asleep. It’s like bonus alone time, and you’re here for it. Just don’t forget to actually sleep at some point!
13. You’ve got a special ‘enjoying my alone time’ outfit.
That ultra-comfy, probably not fit for public viewing outfit that you change into the second you get home? That’s your alone time uniform, and it’s sacred. Wearing real clothes is for other people!
14. You’re always prepared with a book or podcast.
Waiting rooms hold no fear for you — you’re always ready to dive into your own little world. You’re great at entertaining yourself and never get bored, even if you end up with lots of spare time on your hands.
15. You’ve mastered the art of saying no.
You don’t feel the need to explain or apologise for turning down invitations. “No” is a complete sentence, and you’re fluent in it. It’s not rudeness, it’s self-care!
16. You’ve got strong opinions about the best quiet spots in town.
You know all the hidden gems where you can enjoy a peaceful coffee or a quiet walk, and you rotate between them all on a regular basis depending on your mood that day. Maybe don’t share it too widely, though — you don’t want them getting crowded!
17. You treat yourself to solo dates.
Movies, restaurants, even holidays — you’re not afraid to do these things alone. In fact, you prefer it. It’s not sad, it’s liberating! Plus, you always get to choose the film.
18. You lose track of time when you’re alone.
Hours can fly by when you’re enjoying some time to yourself. Suddenly it’s dark outside, and you’ve spent the whole day in blissful solitude. Oops? Nah, that’s just a successful ‘me time’ session in your books!
